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When Love Felt Like Control

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He Was Everything… Except Real Love – My Story of Narcissistic Abuse & Self-Love “I gave him control thinking he'd stay — but he still left.” This is my healing journey after a narcissistic relationship—how I lost myself, and then found love again in the most unexpected place: myself . When Love Felt Like Control I’m writing this… not as a victim, but as someone who survived something no one warned me about — a narcissist. At first, he was perfect. He said all the right things. He made me feel like I was the only one who mattered. And I believed it. Signs I Ignored in a Narcissistic Relationship Slowly, something changed. His love felt like a mirror — it only reflected him. When I needed him — he was “busy.” When I cried — I was “too sensitive.” When I succeeded — he felt “ignored.” When I asked for respect — I was “dramatic.” The Breaking Point Still, I stayed. I bent myself. I made myself smaller. I said sorry, even when I was hurt. I gave him co...

I Found My Way Back to Me

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" Now, I've taken back the love I had lost for myself ." There was a time when I had lost myself completely in someone else's love… I had forgotten my own identity. His smile, his messages, his presence — That had become my whole world. But when he left… It wasn’t just a person who walked away. My smile, my peace, and even my sense of self — all vanished with him. Every day I would scold myself — "Why am I not enough? Why am I always ignored? Why didn’t I get back the love I gave?" But in all those tears, one truth was quietly whispering — "You gave love, but forgot to love yourself." So what did I do next? I forgave myself. I asked my past to pause a while. I looked in the mirror and told myself — "You are enough. Your worth isn’t defined by anyone’s acceptance. Now, you are your own companion." The love I once begged for from others — I now started giving it to...

What Does It Mean to Love Yourself? – My Story

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" Love yourself …" I had heard this line many times. But I truly understood what it means only when I was completely broken… and still, I stood up again – all by myself. I reached a point in life where I had lost myself in loving someone else. I lived, behaved, and even tolerated things only for them – ignoring my own heart. I believed that if I gave love, I would receive it too. But that never happened. I gave love, I gave my time, I gave understanding… And still, one day, that person walked away. No goodbye, no explanation, no turning back. That’s when I realised – Losing yourself while loving someone else… that’s not love. That’s self-betrayal. That day, I cried. I broke down. But at one moment, I looked into the mirror… And I saw that girl – still standing there. Hurt, yes. But there was still a little hope in her eyes. From that day, I started walking… back towards myself. I began waking up for me ....

DKMS: One Swab, One Life – Standing Together Against Blood Cancer

DKMS: One Swab, One Life DKMS: One Swab, One Life – Standing Together Against Blood Cancer Every three minutes, someone in the world hears the life-changing words: "You have blood cancer." For many, a stem cell transplant from a matching donor is their only chance of survival. Finding that match isn’t always easy—but that's where DKMS comes in. And that’s where we come in. Our Beginning: From Pain to Purpose DKMS began in Germany in 1991, born out of one family's loss and their hope to save others. When Peter Harf lost his wife, Mechtild, to leukemia, he didn’t just grieve—he acted. He founded DKMS to find matching donors for blood cancer patients who had no one else. https://www.profitableratecpm.com/j1bz9fqd0?key=e2413e90a291ea10466b4d05c5439d3b What started as a single act of love has now grown into a global community of millions —all driven by the same mission: to give people battling blood cancer a second chance at li...

Top 20 Modern Hindu Baby Girl Names Starting with D – 2025

एक नए जीवन की शुरुआत होती है — छोटी-सी मुस्कान, नन्हीं उंगलियाँ, और माँ-बाप की आँखों में ढेर सारा प्यार। और फिर आता है सबसे प्यारा सवाल: बेटी का नाम क्या रखें? ऐसा नाम जो सिर्फ सुंदर सुनाई न दे, बल्कि उसके जीवन की दिशा भी तय करे — कुछ अलग हो, कुछ खास हो, और हर बार सुनने पर चेहरे पर मुस्कान ला दे। इस पोस्ट में हम लाए हैं "D" अक्षर से शुरू होने वाले 20 प्यारे, मॉडर्न और यूनिक बेबी गर्ल नाम , वो भी उनके सुंदर और सार्थक अर्थों के साथ। अगर आप अपनी नन्हीं परी के लिए एक ऐसा नाम ढूंढ रहे हैं जो पारंपरिक और ट्रेंडी — दोनों हो, तो ये लिस्ट ज़रूर आपका दिल जीत लेगी। क्र.सं. नाम अर्थ (Hindi में) 1 दयारा दयालु और शांत स्वभाव वाली 2 धविका शांत और उज्ज्वल स्त्री 3 दृष्टा दृष्टि, नजरिया 4 दिविशा दिव्य और सुंदर 5 धनी हरा रंग, ताजगी 6 दीरवी शांति और स्थिरता की देवी 7 दयान्शी करुणा से भरी हुई 8 दर्शी ज्ञानी, दूरदर्शी 9 ध्रुविका स्थिरता और विश्वास की प्रतीक 10...

Top 10 Modern Hindu Baby Girl Names Starting with B – 2025

Top 10 Baby Girl Names Starting with B | हिंदी में अर्थ सहित Top 10 Unique Baby Girl Names Starting with 'B' खूबसूरत, अर्थपूर्ण और आधुनिक नाम – हिंदी में अर्थ सहित एक नाम सिर्फ़ पहचान नहीं होता — ये तो आपके प्यार की सबसे पहली झलक होता है। जब आप अपनी नन्हीं सी परी को देखकर मुस्कुराते हैं, तो दिल कहता है कि उसका नाम भी उतना ही खास हो जितनी वो खुद है। हम समझते हैं कि आप ऐसा नाम ढूंढ़ रहे हैं जो सिर्फ़ सुंदर ही नहीं, बल्कि उसमें गहराई भी हो, कुछ अपनापन भी हो। यही वजह है कि हमने यहां "B" अक्षर से शुरू होने वाले ऐसे प्यारे, अनोखे और अर्थपूर्ण नामों की लिस्ट बनाई है — जो आपके दिल को छू जाएं। Bhanvika सूर्य की रौशनी जैसी तेजस्वी; जीवन को जगमगाने वाली Branika शांत लेकिन शक्तिशाली; बुद्धिमत्ता और शालीनता की प्रतीक Bhavanya भावनाओं से भरपूर; जो दिल से जुड़ी हो Binvika संगीत...

Top 20 Baby Girl Names Starting With A | Unique Names with Meanings in Hindi

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Top 20 Baby Girl Names Starting With A | Unique Names with Meanings in Hindi 🌸 Top 20 Baby Girl Names Starting With A | Unique Names with Meanings in Hindi 🌸 बेटियाँ भगवान का सबसे प्यारा उपहार होती हैं, और उनके लिए एक सुंदर, अर्थपूर्ण नाम चुनना हर माता-पिता के लिए एक खास अनुभव होता है। अगर आप अपनी नन्ही परी के लिए 'A' अक्षर से शुरू होने वाला यूनिक और खूबसूरत नाम ढूंढ़ रहे हैं, तो आप बिलकुल सही जगह पर आए हैं। यहाँ हम लाए हैं 20 प्यारे और अनोखे नाम , जो 'A' से शुरू होते हैं और जिनके साथ हैं उनके सुंदर अर्थ — ताकि आप अपने बच्चे के लिए सबसे खास नाम चुन सकें। 👶 A अक्षर से शुरू होने वाले 20 सुंदर बेबी गर्ल नाम (अर्थ सहित) क्र.सं. नाम अर्थ (Hindi में) 1 Aaradhya पूजा योग्य, उपासना 2 Anaya ईश्वर की विशेष कृपा 3 Aarna लक्ष्मी जी का एक नाम, जल की देवी 4 Avni पृथ्वी, धरती माता 5 Aadhya आदि शक्ति, सबसे पहली 6 Anvika शक्तिशाली और पूर्ण ...